I thought it would interest my readers to understand how to enhance their strengths and minimize their limitations. Who among us is not, at times unlovable? And those are the times when we privately yearn and need to be loved the most.

ARIES – THE RAM -March 21-April 19th
The Aries personality is strong and needs to lead. They are action oriented, want their freedom and can be very inspiring. They can be idealistic, and many times suffer the sharp disappointment of misplaced trust. They are protective and most of us feel safe when we are with them. Their one limitation is their lack of patience. Another may be their need to control. Is anyone fast enough? They need to learn that teaching is much better than criticism. Aries give love and need it in return. Many of us do not understand how sensitive they are!

TAURUS – THE BULL – April 20 – May 20
The Taurus personality finds comfort and happiness within the family circle. They have strength of purpose, and patience. They love to be hugged, kissed, and need safety. They tend to analyze everything, which can overwhelm them with ongoing nerves and anxiety. They need to learn that life is positive, as negativity gets in the way of their productivity. No more self-criticism, it definitely gets in the way.

GEMINI – THE TWINS – MAY 21-JUNE 20
The Gemini personality always needs challenge and excitement. That’s why they are easily bored. They are thinkers rather than feelers. They are very smart, and always need to learn. They are teachers, lawyers, and love to travel. It is important for Gemini’s to be careful of idealizing their mates, as they can fall off the pedestal. They need to understand that their desire to have all things as they want them to be can be detrimental, and they need to compromise.

CANCER – THE CRAB- JUNE 21-JULY 22
The Cancer personality is about caretaking. They sincerely believe that taking care of others will help them to be happy. They are very talented, and people depend on their natural strength. They love to have fun, and have a great sense of humor. They need to learn how to express their personal feelings, as they do not like to burden others. I often tell them, “You give so much, it’s time to learn how to receive”. They are sensitive and need attention. Therefore, they cannot reject the love that is offered to them.

LEO – THE LION – JULY 23-AUGUST 22
The king or queen of the Zodiac. Their royalty is obvious. The idealism of youth stirs the Leo’s heart. These leaders are warm, generous, noble, strong, and loyal. As with all fire signs, they need to control, but they need to understand that too much control hurts love. It’s not “my way or the highway” its “our way forever’. It’s also “respect forever.”

VIRGO – THE VIRGIN -AUGUST 23-SEPTEMBER 22
They have talent for accomplishing so many tasks. They are perfectionists, and their demands are excessive. They have great taste, love beautiful things, and give excellent advice. They are much too hard on their self, and need to let go of the overwhelming anxiety. They are a loyal friend, but they need to ask for a favor from time to time. Be careful with very high expectations.

LIBRA – THE SCALES – SEPTEMBER 23-OCTOBER 22
Please do not take away their need for balance! Love needs to be a combination of honesty and peace. Creativity and harmony is loved. They seek justice, intelligence, charm, gentleness, and emotional balance. They cannot take everything personally, because that makes me feel angry. Anger gets in the way, and then they may not feel good enough. If they can minimalize my anger, and replace it with peace, they will have the balance they need.

SCORPIO THE SCORPION – OCTOBER 23-NOVEMBER 21
Scorpios positive qualities are loyalty, will power, magnetism, gentleness, and amazing self-control. Love is worth any sacrifice, and must conquer its challenge. They need to be less reckless, less emotional and fearful, and mentally suspicious. Watch for extreme expectations, and a hunger for something beyond.

SAGITTARIUS THE ARCHER – NOVEMBER 22-DECEMBER 21
They are sensitive, creative, love to travel and laugh. They are cheerful, honest, and have a true zest for life.  They need to develop tact, especially with my sense of humor. Be careful of quick criticism, and replace it with kindness.

CAPRICORN THE GOAT – DECEMBER 22-JANUARY 19
Capricorns are practical, and serious. They are funny, and people enjoy their stories and personality. They would enjoy having my own business, as they like to lead and pursue good ideas. They have natural business sense. Capricorns are determined, stable, and dependable. They need to watch excessive expectations, and curtail inner anxiety. Peace will always help their health.

AQUARIUS THE WATER BEARER – JANUARY 20-FEBRUARY 18
Most Aquarians are inwardly shy, but they are very intelligent, and love to learn. They are both creative and technical. They enjoy art and appreciate talent. They are complex, and want to help others be the best they can be. They are skeptics, and search for the truth. They are independent thinkers, and have a strong sense of justice. They cannot cover their feelings as it can affects their health.

PISCES THE FISH – FEBRUARY 19-MARCH 20
Pisces are sensitive, creative, and love to learn from people they admire. They do not talk about my personal feelings, but they love to help people who suffer in order to enhance their health. Pisces love music, dancing, and singing. They love to have fun, and feel positive. They do take things personally, and need to modify sensitivity. They need to believe that what they do is good enough, because perfect can be boring.

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For over 25 years, Sylvia Friedman has been changing people;s lives - one TRUTH at a time.As a motivational speaker, intuitive coach and celebrated author, she not only sees the truth in others; she helps them discover it themselves. From the hallways of neighborhood housing projects, to the boardrooms of Chicago's top companies, to college classrooms around the world, Sylvia has guided individuals from all walks of life on a journey of self-awareness and acceptance with her signature blend of comedy, candor and compassion. A graduate of Northwestern University's journalism and theatre programs, Sylvia has been featured on many media outlets, including Oprah, Donohue, 190 North, Lifetime, Fox, WGN, WLS and WJBC. She is a proud recipient of an Inspired Award from Today's Chicago Woman magazine, and her book, The Stars in Your Family: Relationships between Parents and Children (Hay House), is in its 5th printing. Visit Sylvia’s website at www.sylviafriedman.com to view client comments and read how Sylvia has helped others find the TRUTH. For private consultations, to schedule a workshop, entertainment or engage a powerful speaker/guest, contact Sylvia at 773-612-9484 or firegyrl@aol.com.