If you think back on your most painful moments, what do you see? Do you experience a flashback or maybe a wave of memories that pour into your mind in a sequence of events all at once? Either way, this can be a paralyzing response, and cause us to be in an almost heightened paranoia-like state. This can make it incredibly difficult to focus on daily tasks, and when you are running a business it requires your full-attention, right?
After all, you have poured everything into making what you love to do a success, and the absolute worst-case scenario would be for your vision and hard work to collapse because of circumstances that occurred that were beyond your control. However, these distressing memories can still have a crippling effect on you in the present day. Or possibly you are currently living in the present trauma, and you honestly have exhausted all hope of ever leaving that particular situation. Be comforted in the knowledge that in both cases, there is hope and help out there.
The History Behind The Helper
It was not until Bashor decided to complete a training through a coach in England named Caroline Strawson, that she realized the severity of the relationship she was in. Bashor had experienced verbal and emotional abuse in a previous relationship and during training she started to understand more clearly the signs of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The training was a healing process for Bashor and it was a real eye-opener for her.
Bashor revealed an event that occurred which inspired her to move forward in finding a way to bring women together. There was a time where Bashor created and sold crafts and she had entered a competition and she won. Bashor soon discovered that it was through, “the conversations that happened around the table there,” that triggered her desire to begin a journey of helping women.
Finding The Expert
Seeking out a compassionate and professional expert can be exactly what you need to help resolve some issues. Tanya Bashor is a Certified Trauma-Informed Somatic Coach, Narcissistic Trauma Specialist, Certified Hypnotherapist and Certified Brainspotting Practitioner (Level 2). The work Bashor provides for her clients is a true service, and she gently reminds others to, “Be kind to yourself. Speak to yourself the way you would speak to your best friend.” Bashor focuses on the areas she sees promising results for her clients in.
The Brainspotting Technique
Bashor implements a technique known as “Brainspotting”, to aid in her clients healing process. Brainspotting is a method discovered by David Grand, and essentially the therapist, “helps people position their eyes in ways that enable them to target sources of negative emotion,” according to goodtherapy.org. It goes on to state that, “brainspotting seems to activate the body’s innate ability to heal itself from trauma.” When asked how effective the brainspotting seemed to be with her clients. Bashor stated that, “it helps them put the trauma to bed.”
Hypnotherapy Benefits for Trauma
As a client of Bashor, you are given the option of hypnotherapy services. When delving into this type of therapy it is important to have at least a general background knowledge of what will occur in the session. According to Bashor you will, “receive a bespoke subconscious hypnotherapy recording to help you heal from trauma, reduce stress and anxiety, and to increase your fearlessness and confidence.”
Leaning Into the Healing Concept
Once you have gained a knowledge-base in coping strategies, or even if you are still searching for strategies, Bashor is offering a incredibly impactful retreat in October 6-8, 2023! When you attend, you will find yourself at the center of a supportive environment that is encompassed with the energy of others who are there to help lift you up and encourage you, while they are receiving that same energy back from you.
Bashor’s website she goes into greater depth about the retreat, including what you can expect to gain from the experience there, and how it can enhance the quality of your life and business! Those attending will experience hard work, yet the opportunity for major shift to occur. This retreat is an immersive, holistic experience that involves activities such as writing exercises, nature walks, and more.
Wisdom from Bashor
Tanya Bashor continues to rise to the occasion when it comes to making women’s wellbeing the focus of her life’s mission. The transparency in the services she offers and what they can do for her clients is a refreshing welcome for those looking for alternative methods to healing. For people who have suffered immense pain and are looking to build a life of abundance and meaning through business, who have that entrepreneurial spirit, Bashor has the tools and expertise to help guide the process.
Bashor wants to emphasize to victims that these things, “happened to you, not because of you.” Bashor also reminds survivors that, “Your circumstances can remind you of what a badass you are, and you can use that to propel you forward. That’s exactly what I’ve done in my life and business. Use the pain to prosper yourself and others.” Those are words to live by which can catapult one from a defeatist mindset (wherein there is a lack of feeling self worth), to stimulating a drive for an epic comeback with a thriving lifestyle and possibly even a dream business.
If any of this information resonates with you, please reach out to Tanya through her website today at: www.impartclarity.com
Cover Photo courtesy of Photographer Tracy Montari